Make time for the big people.
I wanted to write a blog that talked about our successes as parents. I write, with great pride, how proud of our children we are. They are all unique, all successful in their own ways, and all have amazing qualities that attract people to them. That's something to be proud of... But tonight I want to write about something we did wrong. Times were very hard when our children were young. The truth of the matter is, we had four children in car seats for two years... That's should indicate how close in age our children are. At that time, my husband and I struggled very much to make ends meet financially. We didn't have family or friends to rely on for help--- so many times, this meant two to three extra jobs for us both. And I know many would think that is impossible, but it wasn't. What it meant was kissing goodbye at the doorway, sleeping different hours alone, and being with our children a lot. More than a lot, close to every second of our lives was built around...